Likewise, in a love relationship, if the sense of trust between partners disappears, over time the relationship that is established will be cold and even dissolved because trust has been broken.
Well, there are several steps that can be done by the couple to rebuild trust that has been broken so that the relationship can be back in harmony.
To build trust that has been broken. You have to speak frankly to your partner
It is really difficult to express frankly to him why we don’t trust him anymore. Generally we do this so as not to hurt him and further muddy the atmosphere.
Not the wrong way. But remember! As painful as we are about to issue our opinions or complaints, it’s far better than having to speak with pretense.
Because by being frank, even though it might later prolong the conflict, it is far better for tips and he can correct and introspect with one another.
Generally, after doing this heart-to-heart confide, though slowly, believe that trust will return again.
don’t blame each other
Another thing you can do to build trust that has been broken is by adhering to the principle of not blaming each other
Although it may indeed be he who is wrong, but it helps us just give in to win. Later in the long run, if he is a “normal” person, he will certainly admit his mistakes which have damaged the circle of trust that both of them have.
But if it is we who are clearly wrong, then just admit it gentlemen and then forgive one another.
The point here, if we really intend to rebuild trust with himself, then try to allow each other to see the access of contacts that are owned by each other.
Whether it’s an SMS, contact number or chat on WA or other social media, basically try to relax so that each other can see it. It’s uncomfortable and the fact that it violates privacy.
But for this case, this step inevitably has to be taken. And usually, this step is always efficacious to restore trust that has been broken.
Spend time in a place of memories
Although this step is a bit difficult to do especially when you and your partner are in a cold war.
However, this step is strongly recommended to rebuild trust that has been broken.
By bringing your partner to the place where he first met, invented, or treated him to a place or hobby that he likes, will make him immediately improve.
That way, you can apologize, and make new commitments to each other.
Being patient is the key to all the problems we face. Even when you try to rebuild trust that has been broken.
Remember! Rebuilding a commitment or trust is not something that can be done instantly in the blink of an eye.
It takes a lot of confidence and certainty to make us and him trust each other again.
However, that does not mean we are not constant to fight for it. Do as much as we can and leave everything ultimately to the almighty.